Like a third act in a play,
The twist in the plot is revealed.
Yet the villain remains unknown
The protagonist kneels on the stage, silent.
Weeping silently as the story unfolds.
A thousand questions run through his mind,
finding answers that lead to more questions.
Wondering, if it was not in this space and time,
would the script differ?
would he even bother?
The villain sought was what he once thought,
but what he once thought no longer comprehends
The truth he once knew no longer prevails
From where he knelt he took a vow
To not only believe
But to discover.
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Ive been doing a survey of sorts to find out what actually is consider 'cheating' or more specifically whats 'worse' , the physical or emotional affairs and which is more important in a relationship.
Given these two scenarios what would you consider the worse of the two, or would you even consider it cheating at all :
1) Your boyfriend/girlfriend sleeps with a prostitute/has one night stand, no emotions or feelings involved, his/her heart is only reserved for you and the reasoning behind the act may be due to sexual frustration caused by circumstances. (e.g - a long distance relationship where physical intimacy is impossible etc....)
2) Your boyfriend/girlfriend has never slept with anyone else besides you during the course of your relationship BUT secretly is in love with someone else as well, whether the feeling is mutual, requited or not is not taken into account. (e.g. he/she still has feelings for the ex who doesn't give a fuck about them anymore)
Most females have answered number 1 as the more serious offense, physical infidelity. Even though there was no emotions and feelings involved.
It intrigues me as i would have guessed females would opt for number 2 as women are stereotypically considered more emotional than men.
Well, i would choose number 2 as more serious. How can u say u love someone if your heart wasn't totally there?. Wouldn't that be really cheating on the love that your offering?
Do state your views and reasonings.
Thank you please come again :)
coming soon Act 4 - The rebirth
The twist in the plot is revealed.
Yet the villain remains unknown
The protagonist kneels on the stage, silent.
Weeping silently as the story unfolds.
A thousand questions run through his mind,
finding answers that lead to more questions.
Wondering, if it was not in this space and time,
would the script differ?
would he even bother?
The villain sought was what he once thought,
but what he once thought no longer comprehends
The truth he once knew no longer prevails
From where he knelt he took a vow
To not only believe
But to discover.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Ive been doing a survey of sorts to find out what actually is consider 'cheating' or more specifically whats 'worse' , the physical or emotional affairs and which is more important in a relationship.
Given these two scenarios what would you consider the worse of the two, or would you even consider it cheating at all :
1) Your boyfriend/girlfriend sleeps with a prostitute/has one night stand, no emotions or feelings involved, his/her heart is only reserved for you and the reasoning behind the act may be due to sexual frustration caused by circumstances. (e.g - a long distance relationship where physical intimacy is impossible etc....)
2) Your boyfriend/girlfriend has never slept with anyone else besides you during the course of your relationship BUT secretly is in love with someone else as well, whether the feeling is mutual, requited or not is not taken into account. (e.g. he/she still has feelings for the ex who doesn't give a fuck about them anymore)
Most females have answered number 1 as the more serious offense, physical infidelity. Even though there was no emotions and feelings involved.
It intrigues me as i would have guessed females would opt for number 2 as women are stereotypically considered more emotional than men.
Well, i would choose number 2 as more serious. How can u say u love someone if your heart wasn't totally there?. Wouldn't that be really cheating on the love that your offering?
Do state your views and reasonings.
Thank you please come again :)
coming soon Act 4 - The rebirth
6 died a poetic death:
I say both..the 2nd one is totally whacked.wait...
thats dejavu. I think I been in that kinda relationship..so,I was cheating on him???
uuuuhhh...right`~~
oh well...that was in the past. who cares?!
good visualisation you've got on there; i would be spoilt for choice for that but given that female situations was reversed to a male one then i would pick number two.
question: would you rather be of which? a widow or a divorcee?
ouch...tough one zul, a widow by circumstances might be a little tricky..u know..its not like they had a choice..but people do move on..
a divorcee on the other hand may have had a choice, and it'd be wise to actually find out the reasons behind the fall of troy. :D
ive been using that word alot lately, reasons, reasonings...maybe im still searching for the reason that justifies my situation.
here's my take ;)
1 is bad but if it happens well if the girl is the one who did option 1 guys would've thought owh how sick and prolly how do i rely on this girl for further circumstances if she can't even get through this long distance challenge. I'm sure guys feel too instead of the whole guys can do some things girls can't. I believe we're all human no matter what we say at the end of the day we are what we all are.
2 hmm... is as bad. they're both equal somehow. i say this because when people break up and move on with their lives it's not like they're ever going to forget what they had. it's impossible. at the same time no one admits that though it's true.
BOTH IS AS BAD.
~ ive answered this...lol. so how many people did u interviewed?? hehe...i cant remember what i told u...~
Hmm...what striked me in the question was "in love with someone else as well..." there comes a phenomenon as can one love more than 1, haha despite of I can marry 4 situation..in feelings..it should be THE ONE. In the end it just comes up to one ultimate question, does he/she loves ME? Which goes to the simple definiton of love..either way haha situation 1 & 2..is neither love..
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